This is something brought to my attention by Phil74 on the messageboard and it is a truly tragic story.
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) or cot death is one of those things that can happen to any parent and would be truly devastating, as was the case with the Gills fan in the article linked below.
Please do read it, it puts all our petty squabbles and problems in perspective!
http://gillingham.rivals.net/default.asp?sid=934&p=2&stid=8426114